Your nom. is rather jumbled up and rambling but regardless the message is a good one. The thing the BBC and much of the media is missing is that they are creating a world that is hostile to what is different regardless of whether that difference is right or wrong .. often there is nothing wrong with something being different. The problem is that they are ramming it down our throats, what "Dave" does in his spare time is his own business and most would prefer that he would keep it to himself. Most of what they are trying to make us think is normal has actually gone on behind closed doors or at least not pushed in our faces .. my guess is that the true percentage of gays in the population is less than 1%, It might be higher in Emmerdale, Walford, Coronation Street or Ramsey Street but then a lot of actors and scriptwriters are benders and know that sadfucks like nothing to live for like whinging about about it.