You should consider the potential positives of Christian lifestyle choices with your own family and your own personal sex life if you have one.
I would also remind you that the main purpose of sex is for procreation and should take place within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman.Proper adherence to this is important for spiritual and moral maintenance regardless of your other "wandering".
I will advise you on other areas of your life from time to time and you can share your personal development with other board members at Cuntscorner.